October 28th, 2009

asleep at mal 9/09

tweets du jour

  • 13:45 hee hee - rogue from cruxshadows karaokes the beatles bit.ly/3EDowo #
  • 13:54 I'm in brainlust RT@claytoncubitt I'm guessing that people who like Facebook's design a lot might also think PCs are "just as good" as Macs. #
  • 23:18 @xianvox yeah, but you did it for a good cause - hope it was fun ;) #
  • 23:44 RT @Theremina: tinyurl.com/2jz99 (i'm not sure - do i laugh or cry here #
  • 23:51 note to self (mmmm...) bit.ly/1lDR6q #
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asleep at mal 9/09

angry enough to "spit nails"

i just got a court filing from my ex that was so full of half truths and untruths that i cannot believe he filed it...

especially infuriating was this:

he states that i can travel by myself based on the fact that i was in md in august with my boyfriend who was vacationing with me and did all the driving, etc (as he does all the driving here in la or other friends pick me up); the fact that i attended events including a club night and renfaire while i was visiting; and that I sometimes use twitter, etc. during business hours

and i'm not sick because there are pictures of me at clubs - where i am frequently incoherent (and i do not like that this happens but it's a fact of life at this time), asleep on a couch, in the bathroom thowing up dinner/meds, or in too much pain to walk around let alone dance - but this is my only social interaction most of the time so i do go out when someone is willing to take me and i'm not feeling too nauseous

that written documentation or phone testimony of my illness is not acceptable because "there is insufficient proof of who is testifying. Additionally, Ms. Turner seems to be able to attend events which do require a certain level of physical activity." (nowhere have i ever said i was bedridden or unable to walk/do limited physical activity - i've said i cannot travel by myself because of my memory problems)

so...

i wish i wasn't such a "good guy" when i moved to la, that i had demanded he buy me out of the house and that i be given half the property (or paid for it) when i moved; and i recommend anyone who is going through a split, even with a good friend insist on half the minute you no longer co-habitate
asleep at mal 9/09

club pics

this is what happens when i go out...

since the ex seems to think going out to the club makes me safe to travel by myself, i thought i'd share a few recent pictures of me...

asleep at mal again (9/27/09)

yes, i really am this pale; meds plus much sun=bad sunburn and peeling; that isn't a good thing either b/c sun is guaranteed to make me sleep and sleep well; my body clearly misses it

t waking me up to go home from mal (6/09) - note the wool & brocade cassock as blanket over dress & stockings; it was probably about 90* in the club


with dreadeddragon and ophelia_no_yume 7/09


you see, the club is the only real socialization i get these days as our apartment is very small...

and the fact that t doesn't really drink and is always willing to drive, plus the fact that i can fall asleep at mal without worry means that i take advantage of going to the club whenever possible - even if i'm only awake for an hour or if i'm too out of it for real conversation at least i get to see/be around people and sometimes (gasp) dance for a little while - but that doesn't mean i'm healthy, able to get there & home by myself, or not in pain

oh yeah - it doesn't hurt that entrance is usually $2 at mal and often comped elsewhere - which makes it affordable socialization as well