go read this article:
Now, for those of you who are white and find empathizing with something written by a minority, pretend this was written for former President Bill Clinton by Ambassador Hillary Clinton. Replace all references to gay/queer/lgbt with references to feminine/female/woman. Got it? Or, replace black with female/woman - same thing again.
Or if you're a male who still believes women are not as capable as you are, who thinks girls should still be in the kitchen cooking for you, who feel that women are property (of their fathers, their brothers, their husbands), pretend this is the era in which Irish and Italian immigrants were treated as second class, and replace black with Italian and gay with Irish or vice versa. Or think about it from the standpoint of the man of Hispanic descent who's family immigrated to the US in the 1890's but who is treated like an illegal immigrant anyway. Or those of the Jewish, Muslim, Pagan, Hindu, etc faith during the Middle Ages and the Renaissance in Europe - you remember, when Christians were killing and torturing you to force your conversion to their faith.
And if it is still too difficult for you to comprehend that "othering" is bad, go away and don't bother to come back; I don't want to talk about it, I don't want to be your friend in spite of our differences; I've had enough of this shit.
It's WRONG, plain and simple, no matter what group of people you're othering or why. This is how measures that restrict the rights of anyone who's not "us" pass, and why it angers me so much - you are free to practice your religion, your culture as you see fit, you do not have to personally perform, bless, or otherwise condone gays in your houses of worship, you do not have to marry the white woman and the turkish man yourself, you can tell me I am going to "hell" for just posting this. But stop pretending this is right, compassionate, just behavior - you haven't got a leg to stand on when you disallow others the same humanity that you are so proud to possess.
responded to a post I made yesterday, honestly, i don't see why we bother with the pretense of a constitution, anymore... it's not like the pretty words about guarantees of liberty and equality under law contained in those dusty, neglected papers actually mean anything anymore.
In America, that is all too true, and it disgusts me as much now as it did when my friends were dying of AIDS and I was treated to holiday dinner conversation about how HIV is God's punishment for their sins. I want a drink.