Please, if you care about the women, the children, the men in your life, your family, your friends, your co-workers, anyone other than yourself, I would ask that you read this post unless you yourself are already a rape survivor. And if you are this may make it clear just how not alone you are (but it's potentially triggering, so your call).http://www.barcc.org/blog/disclosures-and-silencing/#When:15:01:22Z
Then, if you can, whatever you can, do something to help change things. Rape culture is sooo prevalent, and we are not doing enough. Volunteer (no, you do not have to be a counselor to volunteer), give money, educate others, make sure there is no place that is safe for a rapist. If my words didn't get through to you, I suspect this will.
And if it doesn't, you're not someone I need in my life. This is too important to our future as humans.