Then, if you can, whatever you can, do something to help change things. Rape culture is sooo prevalent, and we are not doing enough. Volunteer (no, you do not have to be a counselor to volunteer), give money, educate others, make sure there is no place that is safe for a rapist. If my words didn't get through to you, I suspect this will.
And if it doesn't, you're not someone I need in my life. This is too important to our future as humans.